Fear is something we all have and sometimes it can contradict our thoughts on what we wish, and dream of. I have always dreamt on being a writer, but the fear of failing and not having enough money and then coming to the point where I’m summing up my whole life and all i get is me becoming a 30-year-old woman with 20 cats and no money, that might be very stereotypical of me but that is just an example of what fear can do. Also just wondering, how am i going to feed my cats, let alone me with no money???
Getting fear out-of-the-way, you then experience. Experience is something that can’t be explained, its something that you can love, but also something that you wish you haven’t even began to do in the first place. I know a lot about experience since I’ve been on both sides of the road, but i guess everyone has. Although experiences can go south, it’s always nice to have that memory that you can write in your journal or just keep it locked away in your mind. Experiences give you the encouragement that, YESS, you have been through that. It’s nice to have that, and that is what I’m trying to do.
I’ve been trying this new thing out where i never say no (unless it’s a man selling sweets), I know it sounds a lot like the plot line of the film, “Yes man” with Jim Carrey….but its exactly like that. I have never been that type of person that says yes on the first try, i always take convincing, and i wish that i was that type of person. So if you are that type of person that has fears and wants to experience the impossible, then just stop and think with me….If you were alone in this world and nothing were to stop you, what would you do???
Stop thinking that the cup will fall on the top shelf if you don’t grab it as quickly as you can because it won’t, it is safe up there with all the other cups. Theres nothing that can stop you from experiencing and making every second count, if your dream is to paint then grab a paintbrush, if you want to write then write a blog, you’re on an appropriate site to do so. If you want to ride horses then saddle up, if you are afraid of roller coasters, then be on the front seat. I know that it is easier said than done and i agree, but that doesn’t mean that it’s not possible.So don’t let your fears get you on your knees, begging for a different life, because this life is your own experience….